Things a Boy-Becoming-a-Man Needs to Know

Never lose control, except on purpose.

When your life or security are threatened, there is no such thing as a fair fight.

If you are challenged to a knife fight, bring a gun.

There is a time to fight. Somewhere out there is a fight with your name on it. This is a good thing.

If possible, give an opponent the opportunity to save face.

When pushed, pull (reassert the initiative).

If you can take a guy’s best punch, you can walk away with your head held high.

Some fights you lose only if you don’t fight. Some fights you win only if you don’t fight. You have to know what kind of fight you are in.

Never fight to win appreciation; fight because it’s the right thing to do.

Never hate your enemies; it clouds your judgment.